TY - BOOK AU - Ford,Debbie TI - Why good people do bad things: how to stop being your own worst enemy SN - 9780060897383 PY - 2008/// CY - New York PB - HarperOne KW - Errors KW - Self-defeating behavior KW - Stupidity N1 - The beach ball effect -- The split -- The seesaw -- Shame on you -- The fallout of fear -- The ego gone bad -- Cracking the code of the false self -- The masks -- Waking up from denial -- Healing the split -- The strength of forgiveness -- Returning to love ER -